Well hello my little kinksters, how are you all?
Realised today after a hectic few days getting sorted for the new academic year (me) getting back to work (Elvis) and unpacking for holidays that it’s been a whole month since either Elvis or I posted on here!!
So here we are back at home and thoroughly relaxed and mellow. Holiday was amazing fun. Both Elvis and I had a ball and really really enjoyed spending so much time together. We were even pretty good (not totally innocent – come on, what do you take us for?) but with all the things going on and the stuff we were planning, a lot of the time we were just happy to curl up in bed and zonk out for the night.
Typical huh? Now that we have come home, and there is no longer unlimited free bed space or privacy to get up to what we want, I am raring to go!! I mean seriously at the moment, despite being all sneezy and snuffly and Elvis suffering from a dose of the dreaded manflu (yes dear I am sympathetic!! 🙂 ) I would still jump his bones like a trampoline!
Since we got back I’ve been doing some lovely dreaming about how I’m going to win the lottery and buy a house somewhere quiet that we can live in but this begs the question of whether to have a playroom or not ;-). On the whole I’m thinking not surprisingly! I will have to have a play cupboard cause my current storage system is so packed right now that one more item and it’s not going to fit!! But as for the room? Nope, despite the 50 shades phenomenon I have no desire to have a Red Room of Pain/Pleasure – I always believe that the pleasure should come from being with the person you are playing with, not the place you are playing! (Plus, explain that to the kids when they’re old enough!!! ) Oooh plus it adds a load of pressure to use it all the time… and then you can forget how good just plain old fashioned sexy fun times can be 😀
That’s kind of what I realised on this holiday – that Elvis and I had been using our toybag to the forfeit of just plain vanilla SFT’s. Basically, due to a mini meltdown on my behalf over one of our new toys (will explain in another post some day – safe to say it took me by surprise 😉 ) we ditched the toy bag for the rest of the holiday and got back to just playing with each other, and it was amazing. Very sexy and sensual, had forgotten what it was like to have him so close and to have the freedom to touch and kiss and look at him whenever the notion took me – bliss. As a result Elvis and I have been able to remember to keep all types of SFT’s alive, not just the kinky ones!
So, question of the day kinksters – is there a type of sex you haven’t had in ages, something that you want to get back to? Or is there something that you do every time and couldn’t live without?? Answers on a comment my darlings!
Love Ninja xo
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